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McLoughlin & Mason Funeral Home
Thursday January 30th, 2020
4:00pm - 7:00pm

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Funeral Mass

St. Jude the Apostle Church
Friday January 31st, 2020
11:00am

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Dennis Tompkins

Dennis James Tompkins, 62, passed away at home surrounded by his family on January 25, 2020 due to complications of Multiple System Atrophy. Dennis was born in Rockville Centre, NY to Paul B. and Marie K. Tompkins.

Dennis began his more than 30-year career in public service with the New York State Assembly, where he started as a legislative associate and later served as Deputy Press Secretary for two Assembly Speakers. For eight years, he was Press Secretary to State Comptroller Carl McCall, before becoming Director of Media Relations for the state’s largest teacher union, NYSUT. He returned to public service at the State Comptroller’s Office, serving as Comptroller Tom DiNapoli’s Communications Director. Dennis concluded his public service and work career as Chief of External Affairs for the New York State Education Department, retiring in 2016. An extraordinary writer, Dennis was a collaborator and team player who made lifelong friendships in every job he held.

Dennis is survived by his wife, Mary Grace Tompkins; son, Brendan Tompkins (McKenzee Greene); daughter Michaela Gioia (Michael); siblings, Paul Tompkins, Maureen Bowen (Ed), Michele Tompkins, Larry Tompkins (Joelle Ballonzoli), Lisa Tompkins (Frank Karam); father-in-law, Rocco J. Fragomeni (late Mary Ann); and brother-in-law, Rocco M. Fragomeni (Tammy). He is also survived by many beloved nieces and nephews.

Dennis loved music and seeing his favorite bands in concert, especially the Boss. He had a wealth of knowledge about politics, history, film, literature, and travel. He especially enjoyed his years of working in New York City and prided himself on driving his own car (never the train) so he could blast his tunes on his weekly road trips.

Dennis’ hallmark was his sense of humor. He brought laughs and life to his family, friends, and to the workplace, where he once rode his bike down the hall delivering pizza to his colleagues. When illness altered his life, he still found ways to make those around him laugh. He was quite irreverent about his illness and often joked that he wanted a destination funeral, but didn’t know when to send the “Save the Dates”.

To know Dennis was to love him. He had so many dedicated friends who got him through the past few years with frequent visits, delivering many chocolate milkshakes and Ho Hos (which he somehow managed to hide from MG). Dennis cherished his family and to know him was to know them. He never missed an event in his children’s lives and was the best listener on the planet. A humble and selfless man, Dennis was happiest when helping someone else. Dennis knew what mattered in life, including a devout love of chocolate and having fun every day. In keeping with Dennis’ loving and generous spirit, it was his decision to donate his brain to the Mount Sinai Icahn School of Medicine so that research may be done for others suffering from MSA.

Dennis’ family is so grateful for the care he received, especially from Angela Eden and Kurt Fluhler.

Family and friends are invited and may call on Thursday January 30, 2020 from 4:00 pm to 7:00  pm at the McLoughlin & Mason Funeral Home, corner of 109th Street and Third Avenue, Lansingburgh. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11:00 am on Friday January 31, 2020 at St. Jude the Apostle Church, 43 Brookside Avenue, Wynantskill. Burial will follow at St. Mary’s Cemetery, Troy.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hope Soars, 1410 Maple Hill Rd., Castleton-On-Hudson, NY, 12033 or at hopesoars.org. Please visit www.mcloughlinmason.com.


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Guestbook

With our deepest sympathy and prayers to Maureen and Dennis's family

Maria and Bob Cox Jan 31 2020 12:00 AM

Mary Grace, Kids, & familyOur deepest sympathies in the loss of Dennis. It was pleasure to know him and be in the presence of such a happy, fun man! You are in our thoughts and prayers.

rockwell7525@gmail.com Jan 29 2020 12:00 AM

Dennis was a wonderful classmate at St. Pius X Preparatory Seminary and then an amazing colleague in support of students all across New York State. I will miss his wit and wisdom.

Dave Flatley Jan 29 2020 12:00 AM

We are so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all.

Mark and Hilary McGrath Jan 28 2020 12:00 AM

Larry - Please accept my condolences for the loss of your older brother, Dennis

Edward T. Curran (Ned)/Clifton Park, NY Jan 28 2020 12:00 AM

Working with Dennis was always lively, busy & fun. He had a great sense of humor, as well as a unique way of 'beckoning' people to his office when he needed them. He was a decent & kind boss who never made you feel unappreciated or unnoticed. And he drove a car with distinction - - like a real New Yorker! Dennis will be greatly missed here at OSC. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family & friends. His life was a gift to all who knew him.

Wendy E Teller Jan 28 2020 12:00 AM

So sorry to learn of Dennis' passing. I treasure the fact that our paths crossed and I had the pleasure of knowing him and working with him at the Comptrollers' Office. A great friend and better listener as well as being a consummate professional and gifted writer. Praying that the many wonderful memories you have of him will give you strength at this incredibly difficult time. Rest in peace my friend.

June O'Neill Jan 28 2020 12:00 AM

It's so hard to say goodbye because goodbye is forever. So I will say so long my friend. Till we meet again. Till our next napkin dance! Thanks for being you. Thanks for making a difference in so many way for so many. But most of all thanks for being You! I love you. RIP....Squash

Anthony Jan 28 2020 12:00 AM

Mary Grace and family, we are so sorry to hear of the passing of Dennis. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Michele and David Kaye (Shainas parents)

Michele and David Kaye Jan 27 2020 12:00 AM

Im so sorry to hear of the loss of Dennis. He help my family when we needed help. He was a great man and I will never forget him. It touched my heart to see how Marygrace and the two kids pulled together and took such good care of Dennis. He will live on in each and everyone of his family members and friends. Rest In Peace Dennis you will be missed greatly.

Sandy cox Jan 27 2020 12:00 AM

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